Uncover Your Worth: A Journey Beyond Being the Fixer
🍂 Deep within you lies a fixer, a helper, tirelessly working to add value to every relationship by fixing, by helping, by being there for others in every way you can. This part of you is so devoted to these roles that finding time for yourself seems like a luxury you can't afford, or perhaps, one you don't believe you deserve. 🛠️
🏃♀️ Staying busy becomes your shield, a way to avoid the quiet moments that might force you to confront the belief that your worth is somehow tied to your usefulness, to being a "good girl" who always puts others first. It's a belief rooted deep, whispering that if you stop helping, if you stop fixing, you'll no longer be worthy of love or attention. 🛡️
💔 This notion that your worth and love are transactional, that they're something you must earn through your actions, through your constant giving, is a heavy burden to carry. It's a belief that doesn't just exhaust you; it also keeps you from experiencing the fullness of who you are, independent of your role as the helper or the fixer. 🌧️
🌿 Your journey of healing is about gently deprogramming and unlayering this belief, about discovering that your worth isn't contingent on what you do for others but exists inherently within you. This path isn't linear; it's filled with moments of insight and challenge, but with each step, you begin to feel a sense of wholeness that doesn't waver in the face of chaos. 🔄
🌱 As you embrace this process, as you learn to see your value as intrinsic and not transactional, the chaos that once seemed to swirl around you incessantly starts to lose its grip. You find peace within, a solid ground that allows you to navigate life and relationships with a newfound sense of self-assurance and calm. 🌼
💖 Presenting yourself as whole in the dating world becomes your new norm. No longer attracting unavailable men or making decisions that jeopardize your mental health, you draw towards you relationships that reflect your inner state of completeness. This shift isn't just about changing who you attract but also about changing how you see yourself and what you believe you deserve. 💞
🕊️ Imagine a life where you're free from the need to fix, to help, to prove your worth through your actions. In this life, you know, deep in your bones, that you are worthy of love and attention simply because you exist. This knowledge doesn't make you less compassionate or helpful; it makes your giving a choice rather than a compulsion, an expression of your love rather than a bid for validation. 🌟
🚀 Your healing journey transforms not only your relationships but also how you relate to yourself. It's a journey towards understanding that you are enough, that your worth is not up for negotiation, and that you deserve love that sees and cherishes you for the whole, beautiful person you are. 🌈
❤️Lil
P.S. Take the Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz to reveal your blocks to love and find your true love match.
