DATING U: The School for Magnetic Relationships
Attract Your Dream Partner Without the Drama.
Next class: January 7, 2025
Trust Yourself Again: Reclaim Your Confidence in Love💖
Attract your dream relationship, keep it, & stop repeating the patterns of your past!
DATING U has two key elements 👇
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Monthly Class
Once a month, we gather together to learn & heal. Classes are held on one Saturday a month for 5 to 6 hours, see the class schedule below! During that time, you have one on one access to me for teaching, coaching, self-reflection, & deep levels of healing. I welcome special guests to the class so that you can ask questions & gain different perspectives!
CLASS DATES:
January 4, 2025
February 22, 2025
March 22, 2025
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Support
Once you enroll, you are invited to our private community. There, you have access to community peer support & love along with trauma-informed support by Lilli & team. You can use this community for accountability, to make new friends, & to learn more about yourSELF & your intuition.
DATING U: The School for Magnetic Relationships
What People Are Saying…
“It's an up & down roller coaster of emotion & Lilli was able to pull me down to the core of my emotion, & once there, showed me a new way of looking at the situation that I had never thought of before & it helped tremendously. I had a spiritual awakening & I've been at peace with myself & my circumstances every day since. I know I have a long way to go & a lot of work to do, but I can say no matter what, that I've found an amazing life coach & friend in Lilli."
— C.A.
"It's been both rewarding & hard work on this journey to discover my authentic self. But knowing I have a wonderful support system of people cheering me on makes all the difference. Lilli, as my coach, adds yet another beautiful human being willing to walk along side of me in this messy journey of life always making me feel safe & accepted. I appreciate her smiles & her kindness yet when she intuitively hits on significant things I love how she cheers me onto courage to go deeper. I thought learning about codependency was about applying external tools to get results but now I'm understanding & embracing the inner work that actually results in outer peace. I love having her on my team, learning a different way of seeing the world & myself, and being lead to intentionally slow down & connect."
— L.A.
“Very grateful for all of my healing this year & the consistency of our sessions during this difficult time. No doubt in my mind you are a divine gift on my journey & for many others too. Thank you Lilli.
— M.M.
DATING U: The School For Magnetic Relationships
Attract your dream partner without the drama.
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Attract your dream partner without the drama. Click To Enroll Now.
FAQs
What does enrollment include?
Great question! Enrollment includes two foundational pieces:
1) One class held per month on a relevant subject about dating, healing, love, & relationship. The subject matter are things that I’ve encountered through my healing journey, what I’ve learned, &, also, special guests by my invitation.
CLASS DATES:
January 4, 2025
February 22, 2025
March 22, 2025
2) A supportive community. With enrollment, you gain access to a supportive community of peers, Lilli, & team. This is a crucial step in your journey of healing as trauma-informed support & peer support of those walking the same path as you accelerates your deeper-level emotional & relational healing.
How long is the program?
The program lasts as long as it’s serving you. AND, there is no up front long-term commitment. Because it’s designed as a subscription, you can cancel anytime. If you decide to cancel, please email support@lillibewley.com 14 days prior to next enrollment installment.
What if I can’t make it to a class?
All good! You have access to the recordings in your membership portal as long as your membership is in good standing.
Is this for women or for men?
As of now, I am serving women. It’s my hope that I will be able to offer a different program & healing opportunities for men in the future. DATING U: The School for Magnetic Relationships is specifically for women at this time.
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes! What I love about this program is that there is no long term obligation. You can cancel anytime by emailing support@lillibewley.com within 14 days prior to your next payment.
How can I get the best experience?
Great question! The best way to experience the healing during DATING U is to sign up & show up. The best results are the ones where you are boundaried with your time & energy on the day of the class. Yes, that means blocking out your calendar for that day, prepping food ahead of time, & doing your best to ask for support for things (like caretaking) that might arise for you during the day. This is a great exercise in practicing boundaries & asking for help (btw, if you need help with this, feel free to ask of it from me during coaching).
What can I expect at the monthly class?
We cover a variety of applicable topics as it relates to healing, love, & relationship. During the class itself, you can expect a morning session that is mostly teaching, then self-reflection & coaching, then a break for lunch. Following lunch, you can expect an afternoon session with coaching & introspection. The last session entails my proprietary process whereby you rewire your brain & body & begin to integrate & apply the things you learn that day.
What can I expect in the support community?
This is one of the best parts imo. I wouldn’t be where I am today without the foundations I have established with my friendships & support group. I’m hoping to create that same type of foundational, relational experience for you. You can expect to be heard, seen, felt & understood in the community. You can expect to be supported & loved. This community is your foundation for life-long, supportive & growth oriented connections.
Do I have access to Lilli one on one?
Yes, in the support community, you have access to support from Lilli & team. During the monthly classes, you have access to me for 1:1 Coaching as well. Look forward to exclusive opportunities for longer term 1:1 coaching with Lilli as well.
Is DATING U only for singles?
No! If you are currently in a relationship, DATING U serves you by facilitating your personal growth journey. Expect to learn about your patterns, your nervous system, & heal your anxiety & overwhelm when it comes to communication & confrontation.
Next class:
Empowered Love: How to Be Seen, Heard, and Understood in Relationships 💫
DATING U: The School for Magnetic Relationships is for you if you deeply desire…
To be loved just for YOU - not your body, the way you look, or your achievements.
To change your dating experience from “dating sucks” to “dating feels aligned & hopeful.”
To stop trying to seek love & earn love, but rather welcome it with an authentic openness & discernment.
To feel safe in yourSELF, your body, & your expressions of your deepest wants, needs, & desires.
To overcome the anxiety & overwhelm when dating.
To pick the right men to spend your time & energy with.
Ready to enroll?
What to expect…
Be seen, heard, & supported to heal your next level of healing.
Be open to receive & give love & be loved deeply by a man.
Find your own intuition & wisdom.
Feel connected to yourSELF, others, & something greater.
More of this please…
In DATING U: The School for Magnetic Relationships, we:
Heal the blocks to romantic intimacy.
Stay authentic to who you are in relationship.
Stop self-judgment & icky gossip.
Attract available partners.
Discover the difference between your projections vs. their issues.
Learn how to trust your own intuition about a relationship.
Forgive yourself & others for bs in the past.
Stop staying around for too long when it’s clear you are not a real match & he doesn’t want a committed relationship.
Vibe on so much other juicy goodness & connection.
From L.A.
“I have been going to therapy for years, and feeling stuck in patterns with dating specifically, that I was really struggling to change and see different outcomes.
I was anxious CONSTANTLY while using dating apps, and felt like I was always messing things up with men I was wanting to date. I knew logically that I “was enough”, and “deserving” of the relationship I want, but I didn’t truly feel it deep down inside of myself.
I often felt like it was hard to find the joy in my life, and the playfulness that was once there. I felt like I would always feel that way, and would not ever meet someone. I was resentful of friends who did meet someone and get into a relationship.
After these few months working with Lilli, I can say that even though I have not met my man yet, I have felt a pretty major shift in the way I show up in the world overall, and especially with how I view boundaries and dating.
Through my work with her, I have started to feel more safe in my body on a more regular basis, and have even noticed a shift in how I view dating and my anxiety surrounding men.
I no longer feel that everything is my fault, and I have been able to translate that to feeling safe within myself, and I have learned to get back in touch with my intuition and use my discernment to know when something is not right for me.
I am not afraid to walk away from the wrong things, because I know I have the tools to find someone one day, and some newfound patience to get me there. I trust myself to keep me safe, and I have found my way back to feeling more playful, joyful, fun, and curious in my day to day life, as well as with dating.
Have I arrived? Not even close. But, with Lilli’s help, I feel like I am finally making real progress in how I feel and relate to others, set boundaries to keep my energy safe, and feel more confident in myself and my worth.
It’s worth the investment in yourself!”
I am a coach, teacher, author, & podcast host with over 90,000 downloads worldwide & have been featured on Top 10 Ranked international podcasts.
I am a gritty survivor & a big dreamer.
I value two big things when it comes to my work, relationships, & myself:
SHOW UP - Showing up means doing what I say I’m going to do & it also means showing up for myself whether that be with boundaries, triggers, love, work, or money. Just show up.
TALK ABOUT THE THINGS NO ONE TALKS ABOUT - Secrecy is the death of intimacy. In order to get to the root of love & life, I value talking about the messy middle & everything in between.
My approach to dating & relationships came after decades of unfulfillment & emotional & spiritual death where I sacrificed mySELF, my values, & my well-being.
All because I didn’t know how to have an epic love relationship.
Finding true love is as much a skill set as is dribbling a basketball & healing is something that has to be practiced over time.
I learned this the hard way. After years of trying it on my own & going nowhere, I opened up to healing & was given the key that magnetic women have known for centuries.
Somehow, it was lost, but now it is found.
I am a Feminine Dating Coach for Finding Love with over 10 years of experience in personal development.
I am on a mission to educate people on how to love dating after a divorce or even in their 30s, 40s, & 50s & even if they've been single forever.
We all have the ability to create magnetic energy in our dating lives even if we have to perform & be high achievers in other areas of our lives.
Over hundreds of coaching hours, my L.O.V.E. Method For Finding Epic Love & my D.A.T.E. to Soul Mate Blueprint - How to Easily Attract Your Dream Partner Without The Drama - has helped clients from all over the world find true love.
I know that by creating & holding space for others to heal & expand into who they truly are, they can experience the epic love they desire & deserve!
My approach is: trauma-informed, polyvagal informed, internal family systems informed, attachment theory-informed, & somatics-informed. Basically, informed by your unique experience.
Your intuition is hiding. My work will help you get it back so you can pick the right man for you.
My big, audacious goal is to help 1 Million People Find True Love in my lifetime.