What we’ve gotten so wrong about fear

We’ve been taught that fear is bad.

We’ve been told that we have to push through our fears.

We’ve been rewarded for feeling the fear & doing it anyways.

What we’ve really been doing is overriding.

We’ve been gaslighting our deepest fears, disappointments, & regrets.
We’ve been pushing them down instead of pushing through.

We’ve been distancing ourselves from our deepest desires because we are in our head, not our hearts. 

We’ve been dangerously close to doing to ourselves on the inside what other people have done to us on the outside.

The truth is, fear is nothing to fear.

It’s nothing to move past.

It’s nothing to change.

Actually, fear is a compass pointing you to a new way to love yourself.

Fear tells us that a part of us is scared of being abandoned.

Scared of failing again.

Scared of being hurt.

You don’t just switch from fear to love.

You learn to love the fear.

And, through time, the fear alchemizes into love.

The fear learns to trust you.

The fear gives you the reigns to live your life in magnetism & alignment.

Fear can be your compass if you start to have a new relationship with it.

Heal your relationship with the fear, queen, & become the magnetic woman you were meant to be.

❤️Lil

P.S. Take the Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz to reveal your blocks to love & find your true love match.