Why 'if it’s not a hell yes, then it’s a hell no' doesn’t work

I used to believe in the concept of “if it’s not a hell yes, then it’s a hell no.”

I don’t anymore though.

And here’s why.

Feeling a hell yes or a hell no in our body & in our minds require us to be in tune with ourselves.

It requires us to be on the frequency of being able to receive cues from our intuition.

What happens if you feel numb, though, are you broken?

If you can’t feel a hell yes or a hell no, there must be something wrong with you, right?

Ummmmm, no.

What if that numb feeling had a unique purpose that used to serve you, but doesn’t anymore?

What if the “hell yes” that ended up being a disaster was just a part of you asking for you to heal?

You HAVEN’T lost your intuition.

In fact, that’s not possible.

Your intuition is the way your highest self & God & the Universe speak to you & through you.

Your intuition has always been with you.

It’s not about finding your intuition.

It’s about healing the layers on layers of pain, hurt, fear, & shame that is hiding it.

Heal, queen, & you won’t need a “hell yes” or a “hell no.”

You’ll just need you.

And that’s more than enough.

❤️Lil

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