Stop man bashing

I'm so tired of the man-bashing when it comes to dating.
And news flash, dating doesn't have to suck.

We all have a responsibility when it comes to the dating process.
We all have the choice to make aligned decisions, too.

Dating = information.

That's it.

What happens when you speak up for your needs, wants, dreams, & desires?
How does he react?
Does he hold space for you?

What happens when you have tough conversations?
What happens when your schedule changes?

When you are constantly mistrusting men, the real mistrust is with a part of you that gets mad for "making the wrong decisions" in the men that you date.
The part that is weary of who you are picking because you've only been picking frogs. (Up until now.)
The part that has closed off her heart because of fear of pain.

I see all of those parts.

The only way to truly trust men throughout dating & in finding epic love is to come into alignment enough internally so you can stay regulated, observe him & take in all of the information that he's giving you, & then make an aligned decision.

Over time & with some consistency, you will start to understand what trust in men really means & feels like.

It feels whole.
Secure.
Supported.
Worthy.
Honoring.
Safe.

Trust yourself, then trust men.

In big love,

❤️Lilli

P.S. Take the Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz to reveal your blocks to love & find your true love match.