Trusting yourself in love

It’s not that you can’t trust yourself in love (even though it feels like it).

It’s really about the internal war inside of you when you know what’s good for you or what you should be doing better, yet you can’t seem to do it, say, or be it in in real life.

Everytime there is incongruence between your thoughts & your actions, you feel farther & farther away from your true & highest self. 

The more confused & frustrated you become & the more you give up hope for finding love.

Well meaning friends & coaches will tell you, “just listen to yourself.”

“Do what you think’s best.”

Or, “Just have fun.”

The problem is, you don’t know.

The way to find your true voice is to choose into healing.

Under all of those parts, under all of those different voices is your true voice.

The voice of your core, your soul, & your heart.

When you heal & find that voice, you start to learn how to listen to her.

You begin to feel what she feels like in your body.

You start to see in your mind’s eye what she sees.

The confusion & frustration begin to dissipate as you & her become one. 

The warning parts inside of you begin to trust that you will choose the right man.

Healing is how you become the magnet to your true love’s desire.

Healing is how you begin to love dating as an enlightening process. 

Heal, queen, & shower yourself with love.

In big love,

❤️Lilli

P.S. Take the Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz to reveal your blocks to love & find your true love match.