🌌 You whisper to yourself, "I'm alone," a mantra that echoes the departure of those you've dared to hold close. "People leave me and do what's best for them," you say, a statement that has become a shield, albeit a thin one, against the cold winds of solitude. In moments of pain, you downplay your struggles, placing them on an imaginary scale where they always weigh less than those of others. "I'm fine," you declare, even when your heart is a cacophony of sadness, loneliness, and confusion. 🍂

If you find yourself in a cycle where you believe that love must be tirelessly sought and earned, where you’re doing too much and trying too hard only to end up exhausted, know that this experience is shared by many. 🏃‍♀️

This belief, whether conscious or subconscious, can turn the quest for love into a relentless and tiring pursuit. But what if I told you that embracing your authentic self is the key to welcoming true, authentic love into your life? 🗝️

Do you often find yourself thinking that every mishap in your relationships is your fault? 🤔

It's a heavy burden to carry, feeling responsible for every misstep or misunderstanding. If you're someone who is tough on yourself and tends to seek validation or advice from others, even strangers, rather than trusting your own voice, know that you're not alone in this struggle. 🙇‍♀️

Do you find yourself thinking, "I don't trust men; they are manipulative and always disappoint me"? 🤔 It's a belief that can feel deeply rooted, especially if your experiences in relationships have been less than ideal. But what if this belief is actually pointing towards something else – a challenge in self-trust? 🌱

If you find yourself believing that relationships are inherently painful, you're not alone 🌧️. Many people carry this protective belief, often formed from past experiences or deep-seated fears

A Dating Coach on s❤︎x…

Before I go on, please know…I am not a saint.

I have made MANY mistakes when it comes to the topic of s❤︎x.

In fact, I’ll repost tomorrow the post where I talked about sleeping with two men in one day 👀

Also know that this post is INTENDED to bring up unresolved stuff in YOU….

Where there’s drama, there’s trauma.

Yep, that’s right.

Too much drama in your dating life?

Or too much trying to avoid drama yet still getting sucked into it?

It’s not you, it’s your Dating Nervous System.

I was reflecting this morning on how my definition of luxury has changed.

I used to think that luxury was in material wealth, what I accumulated, what I could buy, & what I could afford.

We’ve been taught that fear is bad.

We’ve been told that we have to push through our fears.

We’ve been rewarded for feeling the fear & doing it anyways.

I used to believe in the concept of “if it’s not a hell yes, then it’s a hell no.”

I don’t anymore though.

And here’s why.